Big Island Elopement Frequently Asked Questions


Why elope instead of doing a traditional wedding?

Eloping lets you focus on your relationship, skip the stress of over‑planning, and have a deeply personal, intimate experience. It often costs less than a big wedding, especially when you avoid large venue, catering, and guest list expenses.

How much does it really cost to elope??

Costs vary depending on location, vendors, and experiences. A typical Big Island elopement budget may include:

  • Marriage license

  • Permits

  • Photographer & videographer

  • Attire & accessories

  • Travel & accommodations

Our Packages: Big Island Elopement Packages

Costs vary widely based on location, vendors, permits, and accommodations. Typical elopements range from $1950 to $10,000+. Our Beach Elopement Packages include photography + elopement planning + permits.

How do we pick an elopement location?

Consider what resonates with your story: black sand beaches, waterfalls, volcanoes, or private locations. Think about your vision for your wedding day and the ceremony.

What is the best time of year to elope on the Big Island?

The Big Island is warm year-round. Peak tourist season is December–April, but the best time for an elopement is usually spring or fall for fewer crowds and beautiful lighting. Sunrise or sunset is ideal for photos. (Please check the dates of the Ironman Championship as it is the busiest time in Kona, Waikoloa, and Kohala areas).

How do we legally get married on the Big Island?

You need a Hawaii Marriage License and to schedule the appointment in Hawaii. Marriage License Application + Licensed Officiant to sign the marriage license.

Can family or friends attend our elopement?

Absolutely! While elopements are usually small, you can include loved ones. Keep in mind that more guests may require additional permits or accommodations. 6. I plan intimate weddings for up to 30 people.

How do we tell family we’re eloping?

Honesty and warmth work best. Share why eloping feels right for you and reassure them that you’ll include them in other ways, like a post-elopement celebration or sharing photos.

How do we plan the elopement timeline?

  1. Getting ready (hair, makeup, attire)

  2. Travel to the ceremony location

  3. Ceremony (15–30 minutes)

  4. Photography & adventure time

  5. Dinner Time

Should we do a “first look”?

It’s personal preference. A first look allows a private, emotional moment before the ceremony, or you can make the ceremony itself the big reveal.

What if the weather doesn’t cooperate?

We always have an umbrella in our car :) And if the weather is really bad, we will reschedule for the next day at sunrise.

How do we make our elopement personal?

Write your own vows

Include rituals like lei exchanges or cultural blessings

Choose a location that reflects your story and personality

When should we start planning our Big Island elopement?

Ideally, start several months in advance to secure permits, accommodations, and vendors. Some couples successfully plan in as little as a few weeks, or I plan elopements in a few years from now.

What’s the difference between an elopement and a micro-wedding?

Elopements are typically very small, focusing on the couple’s experience. Micro-weddings are small weddings with more guests, often including a reception or dinner.

Ready to Start Planning Your Big Island Elopement?

Start by choosing your date, location, and budget. Check our packages and schedule a call with us.